Healing crystals have been used by past and present civilizations for handling a wide array of problems. As you might already know, finding true love is probably the biggest goal for any single person experimenting with crystals. But in today’s age, with online dating, dating apps, and now even a mandated quarantine, finding that right person for you can feel harder than ever before. We’re going to try to make it easier for you though. We will show you how you can use certain crystals to attract your soulmate, and build a love that lasts forever.
While you can use more than one of these crystals, we recommend you experiment with one at a time when you first start. You can learn how to charge any of these crystals with intention so that they work even better, and we highly recommend that. But it can be problematic if you mix conflicting crystals together. Keep it simple when you’re starting out, and experiment more once you start seeing good results.
Without further adieu, let’s get into the first of our four favorite crystals to attract love and find that soulmate.
First Things First: Unblock Your Heart Chakra
If you aren’t already aware of chakras, we recommend looking into this article. One of the biggest ways to bring about change in your love life is to unblock your heart chakra.
When we unblock the heart chakra successfully, we begin to experience a surge of energy, that flows in and out of the heart continuously. This life energy, called prana, is what is responsible for those feelings of pure joy and makes giving and receiving love significantly easier. It allows you to feel compassion towards others, and this is very attractive to your potential soulmate, because all of nature is connected through these energies at the most fundamental level.
1 – Rose Quartz: For Mending a Broken Heart
Rose Quartz is in the top 3 most popular crystals for beginners who are trying to attract true love. In addition, it is often used for balancing one’s heart chakra. This can be done with several crystals, such as Emerald, Green Aventurine, or Amazonite, but Rose Quartz will work wonderfully.
We often find ourselves hurt from a past lover or relationship and needing to move on before we can find our true soulmate. Starting with Rose Quartz is a great decision because of this fact. You can’t rush into a relationship with a broken heart. That’s a recipe for disaster. What you can do, however, is speed up the process. Use rose quartz to mend that broken heart and allow you to feel like yourself again. Before you realize it, your rose quartz crystal will be working overtime to ensure that you are ready to give and receive love again,
When you have your rose quartz crystal, hold it gently but firmly with your dominant hand. You can do this step while doing yoga, meditation, or simply when you wake up in the morning, but the key is to do it in a place you feel comfortable and at peace. Focus your thoughts toward your intentions of using your crystals to attract the love you yearn for most. Repeat affirmations like:
- “I choose love.”
- “I am ready to give and receive unconditional love.”
- “I am loved now, more than ever.”
- “I deserve this genuine relationship with my soulmate.”
2 – Rhodochrosite: An Alternative Crystal for Healing Past Trauma
Rhodochrosite is a less common crystal, which is used to attract and stimulate love and rejuvenating the soul. It’s extremely useful when you have dealt with a particularly abusive or traumatic experience. Remember, you can and you will heal, even if you are dealing with some deep wounds. Don’t give up! Use rhodochrosite to open your heart and help lighten your day by inspiring a more positive outlook. People who suffer from depression often find that rhodochrosite helps them stop from spiraling. This allows them to regain their composure so they can begin healing.
This crystal can help improve your perception of self worth, which is key after a bad relationship or breakup. You might have lower self esteem or question yourself, after you go through a painful experience. Use this stone to soothe emotional stress, while you give yourself the time to heal. By pairing this stone with affirmations like above, and meditating with it in your hand, you will jump start your healing process.
Alternatively, you can try wearing it as a pendant or bracelet, so you can keep it with you throughout the day. When you’re trying to attract your soulmate, it’s ideal that you let your crystals do their work constantly.
3 – Malachite: Balancing Negative Energy to Attract Stronger Love
Malachite is a crystal we recommend because it is well-known as a stabilizer, bringing a feeling of safety to the wearer. On top of that, it is a beautiful green crystal that will go with just about anything in the form of a bracelet, necklace, or even earrings.
Malachite will be one of the best crystals to help you attract your soulmate. It works in two steps, first by restoring balance, and second by fostering positive changes from within. When you feel like life is beating you down and filling you with negative feelings, such as anguish and resentment. We all have our soulmates, but sometimes they just need a helpful nudge in the right direction. When you are feeling these negative emotions, keep malachite on you at all times. It will absorb those energies, letting your body become more balanced and cleansed of those unnecessary thoughts. It provides a sense of security when you feel the aura shielding he crystal also promoted self-confidence so that you can clearly express your love for your ‘someone special’.
4 – Amazonite: Restore Your Courage and Bring Good Fortune
Crystal experts estimate that Amazonite began showing up as a form of protection and jewelry as far back as the 10th century B.C. It’s not certain whether people actively used these crystals to heal the heart and attract love, but it is a very popular choice today for both of these things.
It’s good to know that Amazonite promotes good physical health in a general sense as well. After various traumas or diseases, amazonite can help aid the recovery process. This is particularly true when dealing with issues related to the nervous system and thyroid gland.
Another name for amazonite is the “Stone of Courage”. When you are hurt from a past relationship, you feel hesitant to face the world and another potential partner again. You may have trouble trusting people as much as before. You might feel afraid to stay alone, and you likely feel lonely for the time that you are alone, after spending a long time in the company of someone you may have loved.
If that’s not enough, amazonite crystals also serve as a great good luck charm, so you may experience a pleasant surprise of new fortune on your quest to attract love from your soulmate. Sometimes it takes a bit of luck to end up in the right place at the right time to catch that person’s eye, and we know this stone will help you do exactly that.
Conclusion
When it’s tough to move on from a past relationship, sometimes we forget that change often comes from within. It’s important to be open to trying something new, especially when the old clearly didn’t work! Whether that means using a fresh crystal or combining different crystals, you’re not out of luck just because you find yourself single today. You can feel confident that people have produced great results with one or a variation of these above choices.
We’re certain that you will successfully mend that broken heart when you combine these crystals with active programming. You should practice these techniques at least once per day, if you can. Ideally, repeat your affirmations when you wake up and before you go to sleep at night.
Our favorite is Rose Quartz because of its vibrant color, but Rhodochrosite is a very unique stone. If you love finding rarer stones, you will likely not come across Rhodochrosite often. There are even some bracelets combining these two crystals.
Which is your favorite? If you tried more than one, which crystal or combination of crystals gave you the best results? We’d love to hear some success stories. Finally, as always, feel free to suggest more obscure crystals, which our readers are always eager to try out!