Choosing and personalizing a crystal for someone else is something many of us have thought about doing at some time, but it is not as easy as it sounds. In case you didn’t already know, there are actually several ways to focus our crystals’ energies toward accumulating wealth, love, happiness, and more. But if you’ve been following our blog, you may have noticed that we haven’t discussed specifically how to program a crystal on behalf of someone else. Lots of factors play an important role in that, as you are essentially manifesting someone else’s desires and injecting them inside the crystal. You work as a third person, wielding what can be considered extraordinary powers.
Everything starts with actually picking the right crystal for someone else. You wouldn’t be able to manifest the right future with the wrong intentions, and in the same token, you wouldn’t want to use the wrong type of crystal for a certain goal.
Before you choose a crystal, know that you can always buy crystals for your friends, lover, wife, parents, kids, or anyone else at any time, without a special reason. You can even give a beautiful healing crystal to your boss or client as a simple token of love or appreciation. It doesn’t have to be charged with any specific desires or energies, and some of the more common healing crystals are often simply used as a decoration or a good luck charm.
But you might be interested in doing something beyond this. And if that’s you, you’re in luck. We’re going to show you how you can start in the comfort of your own home.
Which Crystal Should I Choose?
Before we explain how to program a crystal, here is a small list of ideas that will give you an idea about which crystal would be best for someone else.
Without following this step properly, it would be difficult, to say the least. To program a crystal for someone else, you need to be aware of the lifestyle, needs, or even of the other person.
- Determine what the other person is going through in his life. Is he trapped in his relationships, or working hard to acquire business success, yet missing the mark in some way? Does she feel like she’s not making progress despite doing all the right things? Understanding the situation and needs of the other person can get you 90% of the way with this step.
- What is their birth date? Learning this aspect can help you choose a crystal that matches the zodiac sign. It improves all the aspects of their life and ground their soul with positivity.
- Which characteristic of their life do they need to improve? Think carefully about this. It’s not enough to say that they simply need to make more money – is something else in the way? This is something you may be able to figure out if you know the person well. For your significant other especially, understanding this aspect before choosing a crystal can help you a lot in manifesting the desired outcome.
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If you want us to give you a brief rundown because you’re in a rush, we can do that too, but results may be better with more carefully chosen crystals.
However, you may struggle to find some of the rarer crystals depending on your area, so it might be best to make do with the best that is available. Buy Selenite for reducing stress, Rose Quartz for love, Amazonite for creativity, Fluorite for blessings, Amethyst for relaxation, and Pyrite for wealth or success. These crystals cover most of the purposes people use crystal programming for, but if you have a particularly unique need, feel free to send us what you have in mind for our opinion.
Once you pick the right crystal, it becomes a tad easier to actually program it.
So you have your crystal. Now, how do you program the crystal for someone else?
Now that you have a crystal in mind (and ideally in your palm as well!), how do you actually use it? When it comes to programming a crystal for someone else, the entire process depends on visualization. You visualize the other person with the crystal in the best way possible, as specifically as you can. Imagine the person as you want them to be.
Visualization is all about the formation of a mental image.
Hold the crystal or piece of jewelry in your hand, and imagine how the person in mind is changing into the new person that you want them to become. Imagine them interacting with or wearing your crystal ring, bracelet, or any form of jewelry with the specific crystal you chose. Is it a ruby bracelet, used for enhancing motivation and passion for life? Wear the bracelet and imagine this lucky person is wearing it and embracing this passion that they may already have, but perhaps have forgotten or are neglecting because of the many obstacles that make up life.
Or perhaps it’s a mixture of sapphire and pearl. Pearl is great for calming and uplifting one’s spirits, and sapphire is used to aid in concentration and bring about wisdom. Either way, having the right intention in mind and visualizing this deeply is the key to success when you program your crystal.
But wait – don’t do too much either!
Try not to overthink things at this stage.
You need to focus on only one thing. This only takes one visualization. Make sure there is little to no mental effort into the process. When you are visualizing, let the image come to you. It can be easy to overthink things when you are visualizing or programming something for yourself, but when you program a crystal for someone else, you must imagine just the whole finished image. Don’t worry about the steps it will take to get there, only imagine the final product. There is no need to fill the gaps in their life with your imagination.
During the practice of visualization, similar to meditation, your mind will want to wander off. This is completely normal; just aim to get back on track without getting distracted for too long.
Use Affirmations To Program Your Crystal
Apart from visualization, people find success with affirmations as well. Use affirmations that suggest your target person is in the ideal state. In a way, you have to imagine yourself talking to them like they are in an ideal state.
For example…
- “Congratulations on your success.”
- “You look pretty.”
- “I love the way you cooperate.”
- “I am happy you changed your life.”
- “You really conquer your challenges very well.”
- “You are inspiring.”
While using these affirmations and holding your crystal, connect with the emotions. You should feel like your positive energies are radiating out of you, which will help them transfer into the stone.
As alluded earlier, it is important to really know this person. This will not work nearly as well with a total stranger. Without proper knowledge about the other person, don’t expect any special results. And this makes sense – how can you choose the right crystal for someone without properly getting to know the person first? You might be incorrectly programming the crystals. You will be directing the energies in those ways that won’t suit the other person.
When Can I Expect Results?
So you’ve successfully programmed your crystal with affirmations and visualization. But how about the actual results? This part is a bit difficult and that’s because it is not even in your control. As much as you attempt to achieve through visualization, you can’t rush the results. And you can’t expect to receive any results if this person isn’t even using the crystal at all.
People need to actually remember to use their crystal to notice positive changes in their lives. Besides, the visualization doesn’t end there. It is good for you to keep on visualizing their best possible picture and sending positive and happy energies to them. Focus on that single final image as talked about before. Don’t continuously change the image or the goal that you have for this person. Let the energy of that single picture accumulate and pass through the crystal into the holder.
One way to get around this obstacle is to give them their crystal in the form of jewelry. This way, they can wear it as a fashion statement and don’t need to remember to bring it with them. Sometimes, a palm stone is easier to forget at home than a necklace.
When billions of brain cells work together in a singular, purposeful direction, they give results fast. Think of this process as a form of daily meditation; mentally, you can live in the moment, but imagine the ideal improved life of someone else.
How to Increase the Effects of Crystals on Someone Else
To increase the effect of the crystal, you can do a few other things.
- Tell them exactly what you want them to do; motivate them. But don’t be too pushy!
- Give them small gifts to make them emotionally & psychologically happy. Make the gifts meaningful rather than expensive.
- Share their sacrifices and support them in tough times.
You don’t need tech skills or magic powers to do all of that.
Clear communication and positive words of encouragement are all that some people need to accomplish more in life.
Also keep in mind – some crystals like Quartz serve multiple purposes. But if you wish to improve a specific segment of their life, you have to ensure that your intentions, affirmations, and visualization are matching with the energy of the crystals. This goes for all crystals, but especially for quartz which can have many different effects because of all the variations of quartz that exist.
For example, if a crystal is for stress relief, and you are programming it with intentions of success, it won’t work as well. Sometimes, it takes a lot of stress on the road to success. You can aim to reduce stress, but you will have better success with a different crystal. You must use it as a stress-relief option to maximize its effects. Feel free to get creative, but remember what each crystal is most beneficial for, and aim for that.
Conclusion
So you have the intention to program the crystal for someone else, but you know now that it is clearly a bit more complex than programming a crystal for yourself. In a way, you work as a healer in this process; you are a third party who tries to get better results for others. Plus, most of the time you are doing this without communicating with the other person. They don’t even know what you are trying to do, and cannot really offer you any helpful advice.
Unless you know them very well yourself, it will be difficult to figure some things out on behalf of someone else, so a lot of research needs to be done in advance. It is pertinent to know what their actual issues are and how they see problems from their perspective. Once you know what they are dealing with in their lives and the type of personality they have, you can find success a lot easier.
We hope this article helps, and that you are able to find the right crystal and begin programming it for the goals you have in mind. If you are struggling to find authentic crystals, we suggest checking out the Spirit Magicka shop, and using our coupon “mygemstones” for 11% off.